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Signs You Are A S.E.X Addict


Some call it hypers.e.xuality some just s.e.xual addiction, whatever you choose to call most can help but wonder if its a real thing or not. However, it is not easy to recognise a problem you do not know is one yet. The best people to inform you of the truth of this matter are those who are already suffering from it. One might say is there such a thing as suffering from s.e.x…ummm yes there is. Experts have proven s.e.xual addiction symptoms are real!

It is actually a psychological condition where one won’t be able to manage their s.e.xual behaviour. Interestingly, it’s not even all about s.e.x. S.e.x addicts are not simply people who crave for a lot of s.e.x, they have underlying problems. Hypers.e.xuality symptoms like stress, anxiety, depression, and shame are what drive their often reckless s.e.xual behaviour. By definition, “s.e.xual addiction” is a compulsive need to perform s.e.xual acts in order to achieve the kind of “fix” that a person with alcohol addiction gets from a drink.

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Common Symptoms Of S.e.x Addiction

1S.e.xual addiction also appears to involve making rules to feel in control of the condition and then breaking them to make new rules. Here’s a list of some common attributes and attitudes of a person struggling with s.e.xual addiction:

  • Compulsive masturbation
  • Multiple affairs, s.e.xual partners, and one-night stands
  • Persistent use of pornography
  • Practicing unsafe s.e.x
  • Cybers.e.x
  • Visiting prostitutes or practicing prostitution
  • Exhibitionism
  • Voyeurism
Some of his behavioural tendencies will be:
  • An inability to contain s.e.xual urges and respect the boundaries of others involved in the s.e.xual act
  • Detachment, in which the s.e.xual activity does not emotionally satisfy the individual
  • Obsession with attracting others, being in love, and starting new romances, often leading to a string of relationships
  • Feelings of guilt and shame
  • An awareness that the urges are uncontrollable, in spite of financial, medical, or social consequences
  • A pattern of recurrent failure to resist impulses to engage in extreme acts of lewd s.e.x
  • Engagement in s.e.xual behaviours for longer than intended, and to a greater extent
  • Several attempts to stop, reduce, or control behaviour
  • Excessive time and energy spent obtaining s.e.x, being s.e.xual, or recovering from a s.e.xual experience
  • Giving up social, work-related, or recreational activities because of a s.e.xual addiction
  • S.e.xual rage disorder, where an individual becomes distressed, anxious, restless, and possibly violent if unable to engage in the addiction

Studies have demonstrated a strong link between alleged s.e.xual addiction and risk-taking. S.e.xual addiction may cause a person to persist in taking risks even if there may be health consequences, such as s.e.xually transmitted infection (STI), physical injury, or emotional consequences.


Addiction can be difficult to treat, as a person with an addiction will often rationalize and justify their behaviors and thought patterns. People with a s.e.x addiction may deny there is a problem. Current treatment options aim to reduce any excessive urges to engage in s.e.xual relations and to encourage the nurturing of healthy relationships.

The following treatment options are available:
  • Self-help organizations, such as S.e.x Addicts Anonymous, S.e.xaholics Anonymous, S.e.xual Compulsives Anonymous, and S.e.x and Love Addicts Anonymous, offer step-by-step programs to help the individual in self-managing the condition.
  • Residential treatment programs are available for individuals with various addictive disorders. These are in-patient programs, during which the individual lives on-site at the facility and receives care from specialized therapists.
  • Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) provides a variety of techniques that help the individual change their behavior. CBT can equip a person to avoid relapses and reprogram harmful s.e.xual behaviours. Rather than delving into feelings, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a short-term approach geared toward helping patients notice and correct the irrational thoughts and feelings that lead to compulsive behavior via learning techniques that serve to regulate the urges. This often involves journal keeping and workbook exercises and can be an effective treatment for s.e.xual addictions.
  • Prescription medication such as Prozac, may be prescribed to reduce s.e.xual urges. A health professional will recommend a certified medication if need be.
  • Psychodynamic therapy. Built around the premise that unconscious memories and conflicts affect our behaviour, Psychodynamic therapy uncovers early childhood influencers of current habits or present factors that contribute to the current s.e.x addiction.
  • Couple’s counseling or Marriage counseling. This can be very beneficial for the s.e.x addict and his or her partner. Couple’s counseling can help to improve communication skills, trust, and healthy s.e.xual functioning between partners.

The support of friends and family is crucial for a person recovering from an addiction. S.e.xual addiction, due to its behavioral nature, can be difficult for others to understand and tolerate, especially if it has already led to damage in relationships.

However, a strong support network helps to reduce destructive behavior and the risk of relapse.

Resource: Medical News Today